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Out of the last five times you’ve made love, how many have you initiated, and how many has your husband initiated? If you say he’s initiated all 5, that could be a problem! Now, I know sometimes you just start making love because you’re kissing and snuggling, and it’s not clear WHO initiated. It just happened (all the more reason to go to bed at the same time, so that things can “just happen”!). And sometimes he has a really low sex drive, and so the whole initiation pattern is thrown off. I’ve got a series for women in that...

What’s the best way to show your wife you love her? We asked married women just that. As they told us about their spouses’ most meaningful gestures, we noticed a theme (cliché alert!): It’s the little things that count. Steal their husbands’ ideas to make your own wife swoon.  Note: Though we talked to married women in straight relationships, we’re pretty sure that many of these would apply to same-sex marriages, too. Notice When She’s StressedA man’s willingness to do housework is a major predictor of marital bliss, according to Pew research.  This was true among the women we polled,...

And you thought it couldn't get any better ... You and your partner already have toe-curling, sheets-grabbing lip-biting sex nearly every day. So how can you make it even hotter? Good question. Whether you're pretending to meet each other for the first time or you're role-playing as your naughtier, sexier persona, heating things up between you has never been easier. Don't believe us? Check out these suggestions for infusing your relationship with sexy spontaneity, from four of YourTango's top experts: 1. Entice your partner with a list of your biggest turn-ons.   Send your partner an email listing some of the...

Memory Booster #1: Look upEver blanked out on a date? Try staring at the ceiling for a second. "It sounds simple (and it is), but looking up connects you to your visual memory," says Farrow. "Most of our brain is dedicated to visual processing. It takes a lot of our brain to 'see' stuff, so when we move our eyes in a certain direction, it changes the way our brain thinks." And in the case of looking up, it helps you remember things better, too. Think about the last time you asked for directions (that goes for you too, men)....

1. Make her feel beautiful, every day. This one seems obvious. Internet Romeos everywhere are reading this going “Hey man, I call girls beautiful every day!” I don’t mean just telling a woman she’s beautiful – any guy can do that. I mean make her deeply feel, in her heart, that you think she is the most heart-wrenchingly beautiful woman you’ve ever laid your eyes on. Women are not often as confident as they come across. You need to reinforce her, no matter what. It doesn’t matter if she just got stung by a bee and her entire face is...

1. She's amaazing in bed! She is comfortable with her body and good at communicating her wants and needs. Plus, she has experience. For mind-blowing sex, a woman in her 30s may be your best bet. 2. She is confident. Confidence is sexy! She's learned that she's great just the way she is and has let go of insecurities she may have had when she was younger. She won't need constant reassuring that those jeans don't make her look fat. She knows they look fantastic. 3. She has polish and poise. She is put together and can handle social situations...

So if you're single check out our thirty top tips on how to make him want you and if you're already coupled up use this as a guide for how to make your man want you even more! Turning a man on is all about playing to his senses, so we've got ways to work it from every angle. Want to test it out and make him want you? Here are some ideas: Set the mood: 1- Install ambient lightingWe're starting off at the very beginning here, but a little bit of lighting can go along way. Install ambient lighting...

1. Tell your partner what you ate for lunch. Or shoot them an email about your boss’s wacky tie. Or send them a Snapchat pic of any of the other random, meaningless, and mundane things that you noticed throughout the day. Keeping your partner up-to-date on the small things you think, see, and experience fosters what some relationship experts call “interrelatedness,” a key factor in intimacy. This is especially important if you’re in a long-distance relationship, where you don’t have many chances to chit-chat about the silly stuff. 2. Say thank you, even for the small expected things. Gratitude is...

There's nothing hotter than having the control to properly seduce your partner except, maybe, getting the goods that come at the end of your top-notch seduction skills. Want to get his attention—and keep it? It'll not only heat up your night, but it can strengthen your relationship, too. Give these 30 suggestions a chance, and your partner will be putty in your hand in no time. TEASE Nothing says hot like teasing your partner with what he can and can't have. TALK DIRTY Whether you're home watching TV or out at a party, tell him exactly what you want to...

Is your husband a Sports Authority guy or a Bass Pro Shop guy? Is he a meat and potatoes man or a carb-avoiding fitness- focused fellow? There are many types of husbands, and many varied preferences when it comes to the kind of romance men like.  So when you’re thinking of romantic ideas for him, it helps to think about his particular likes and dislikes. Your husband’s idea of romance might be a night of ESPN, nachos and you (at least you’re part of it, right?). Another husband might prefer soft music, scented candles, and, oh yeah, you, of course! We can...