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There comes a point in everyone’s relationship where things just get weird. The level of weird is completely normal to the two of you but to onlookers and friends, it’s almost unacceptable behavior. Here are some things couples in long-term relationships do that are a tad bit weird to the outside world. 1. Your bodily smells are no longer a gray area After a certain period of time, farts and burps just become amusing. On second thought, the ones that don’t smell like a decaying body or a fresh pile of crap, are amusing. Throughout the course of your relationship,...

Contrary to popular belief, you don't need a working knowledge of 52 sexpositions or a background in porn to be ridiculously good in bed. Instead, it comes down to more subtle (and realistic) factors that you may already posses. And if you don't, we're here to help you hone the skills you really need to blow your partner's mind. YOU'RE NOT JUDGMENTALWhether it's hearing out your partner's fantasy or allowing yourself to really identify your own, being open to different desires and turn-ons is essential in a partner, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. "Remember...

Let’s face it, we all want something from a relationship. Yet some just want something casual and less committed than what may be the general expectation. It is important to identify certain signs that could mean the other person doesn’t want more out of a relationship than what is casual. Such clarity will help us avoid disappointment at the end. 1. They are not progressive about the relationship A relationship is like a plant. It has to be nurtured to grow. Such evolution is what will lead it to solidity and certainty. However if an individual doesn’t see a relationship...

The truth is there is no such thing as perfect. So let’s frame this list as ‘perfect for most’. We all want and desire that perfect match, the person we know is the ‘one’ for us. We also know the likes and desires in a partner look different for everyone, so this list is created with the framework of what a healthy and loving relationship might look like.  We often desire to be truly loved and accepted in our lives, especially when we are in a relationship. The most important thing about any relationship is that love is the common denominator and that past...

If you desire long-lasting relationship success, don’t forget to tell your partner these 10 essential things every day. 1. “I miss you.” “If conversation was the lyrics, laughter was the music, making time spent together a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting stale.” – Nicholas Sparks Telling your partner you miss them through a simple text or email will make them feel needed, wanted, and appreciated. If you’re home with the kids while your partner is at work, send them a group family photo with a message like, “We can’t wait for you to get home!”...

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. However, many people aren’t certain what they should be communicating about. Spend time talking about a variety of topics to grow together as a couple and to prevent your relationship from becoming stale. 1. Your Daily Activities All of your conversations don’t have to be earth shattering. Spend time talking about your day-to-day activities. Discuss what time you woke up, what you ate for lunch, or what you discussed with a co-worker and help your partner understand what happens when you’re apart. 2. Money Talk about your budget. Discuss your saving and...

It's not just compliments and sex he's hoping for, though, let's face it, he wouldn't mind a little more of those too. Break out into a spontaneous dance party... ...Or whatever your silly side has the urge to do. Men feel relief when they get an occasional break from a woman's serious, action-oriented sides (which he's not knocking; he totally digs how ambitious and efficient you are). "Women today have to be very type A in order to get everything done, because there's just a lot—the kids, the carpools, the work presentation, keeping the house clean, and more," says couples...

Immediately announce the news with a ring photo “Don’t let social media dictate that moment for you. First, be mushy, hug, and let those tears run down your face (even if you’re wearing mascara). Then, give your family a call or go visit them in-person if you can. Consider uploading a photo after you’ve notified your loved ones, but don’t make it all about the rock. While ring photos are lovely, they kind of take away from the engagement being about you and your significant other. Instead, post a happy shot of you and your soon-to-be.” Carrie Crooks and Nicole Seligman,...

One way that happy couples are alike? Synchronized alarm clocks—and bedtimes. A study published this month in the journal Sleep revealed that how couples sleep together is influenced by how satisfied they are with their marriage. The 46 participating couples reported that those who shared a bed were simultaneously awake or asleep in it about 75 percent of the time. When wives felt higher satisfaction in their marriages, that number rose, as they synced their sleep patterns even more closely with their husbands’. But shared sleep habits apparently not only expose truths about relationships, they can also affect them. Some more...

In April, your dreams of a romantic vacation may be easily spoiled by hordes of rowdy students on spring break. But if you follow these suggestions, you'll be guaranteed some alone time. Here are our tips for romantic getaways in April. Napa Valley As California's premier wine region, Napa Valley overflows with springtime blossoms, scents and colors. Take a tour at one of the hundreds of wineries dotted across the rolling hills. Some of the crowd favorites include Robert Sinskey Vineyards, Quintessa and Joseph Phelps, each with a unique style and flavor. When you're not clinking your glasses, make moves...