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When relationships get bogged down with kids and demanding schedules, it’s natural that sex can fall off the radar from time to time. But if it feels like “from time to time” is actually ALL of the time, it’s important to make an effort to make your passion a priority again. This post from Lifescript has some great advice for getting the excitement back into your sex life. First of all, if your schedules have gotten too busy to include sex, it’s time to add it to your calendar. Scheduled sex can be just as hot as spontaneous sex, and...
Anyone who is out there in the dating world these days knows that things are harder than ever for singles. Which is weird, because it’s easier than ever to meet people with just a quick app download and right swipe of your finger. But with the ease that dating technology brings comes a whole new set of dating rules that are often unspoken. This post from the Times of India tries to make sense of some of the most important “rules” modern daters should be following, and offers some tips for those hoping to meet that special someone in our...
Vacation is great; who doesn’t love time off work, longer summer days to get outside, and plenty of beach time and tropical cocktails? But everyone knows the best thing about vacation is all the vacation sex. If only there was a way to recreate the carefree kind of sex you have on vacation at home, right? Well, this post from Shape tells you exactly how to do that. For one, don’t limit yourself to just the bedroom or the bed. Get creative with your lovemaking locales and reminisce about the time you did it on the sand at sunset in...
When it comes to relationship advice, there’s the good, the bad, and the really, really bad, but it’s not always easy to tell which is which if you're in a new relationship or marriage. This post from Pulse.ng shares some of those comically bad pieces of relationship advice and what tips you should be following instead. By now, everyone has heard the "don't go to bed angry" rule, but is it really that helpful? When you're in the throes of an intense disagreement with your spouse, often the last thing you want to do is keep arguing just to resolve...
We get it: you lead such a busy life between your commitments to work, your kids, their extracurricular activities, and social time with your friends, that by the end of the day, it can feel like you have no time (or energy) left for sex. But operating under the idea that sex can only happen at the end of the day is just the beginning of the problem. This post from The Sun serves as a reminder that there's always time for sex if you make time for it. We're not talking about an hour-long session in the sack, either....
When couples get caught up in the thrill of getting engaged and planning a wedding, some of the details like centerpieces and napkin colors can get in the way of what they’re truly about to celebrate: their relationship and their commitment to each other. But it’s important to really focus on the reasons you’re getting married, not just on the details of your wedding. This post from News OK shares some expert tips for making sure your relationship is built to last, and how to stay strong together even in the toughest of times so your marriage doesn't eventually end...
While sex isn’t (or shouldn’t be) the MOST important part of your relationship, it still plays a very big role and should be something that happy, healthy couples spend a good amount of time exploring. But what happens when one partner is more interested in sex, or interested in having sex more frequently, than the other partner? This post from The Health Site addresses this issue, and how to overcome it. Many couples struggle with one partner having more desire or a stronger libido than the other, which can lead to unnecessary arguments in the bedroom. Luckily, there are some...
You may be wondering what importance or impact the ideas of centuries-gone philosophers could possibly have on your love life in the 21st century. But it turns out, philosophers like Kierkegaard, Nietzsche and Jean-Paul Sartre knew what they were talking about, especially when it comes to relationships. This post from ABC looks at some of their different studies and ideologies as they relate to love and relationships, and how they can help modern couples gain some perspective on their love lives. Fro example, Simone de Beauvoir believed that relationships could cause problems if they were the only source of meaning...
Anyone who’s been in a serious, long-term relationship or marriage knows that being coupled up isn’t always easy. There are external stresses that can affect your relationship, like work and finances, and of course, occasional disagreements about even the smallest of issues. When it comes to the tough times, sometimes you need to seek some advice from people who have been in your shoes before. And when you’re looking for some tried and true marriage advice, who better to turn to than people who know marriage best? This post from Phys.org surveyed over 700 individuals who had been married for...
Your sex life should never have a checks and balances sheet attached to it, but so many of us use sex as a commodity during arguments or when we want our way. This post from Pulse explains the dangers behind seeing sex as any kind of commodity that can be bought or bartered for, and the benefits of making sex about pleasure, not politics. Some of us don’t even notice when we’re doing it; we want sex and we want it now so we remind our loved one of all the nice things we’ve done for them that week, trying...