The major reason most relationships lack real passion can be traced down to a lack of deep understanding. Don't get me wrong. You are in a relationship, yes.

 You know that you're in a relationship, your partner knows it, and you both respect each other. But, what about those times you just don't understand your partner?

 What about those occasional situations when you just can't figure out the reason behind your loved one's sadness, withdrawal, anger, or plain disgust of you?

Do you conclude like every other woman that all men are from Mars and just impossible to please? Or do you conclude like every other man that all women are from Venus and a complete mystery?

What if the fault is yours?

What if it's you that can't truly understand your partner?

 The Consequence of Misunderstanding Your Partner

 When partners have a misunderstanding, then lots of things start to go wrong, especially if the misunderstanding isn't resolved quickly and fairly.

 The feelings of anger, betrayal, abandonment, and guilt can all surface. Each person will have a distinct mix of all these feelings. One may feel more angry, while the other may feel more betrayed.

 When these misunderstandings happen more often, then this resultant emotion continues to build, and it might get so strong in some people that it overcomes the feeling of love, or equals it at least.

 That's when most people discover that they are having a relationship problem. But that isn't for you anymore, because you are about to discover how to create the exact opposite of a fight.

Why The Misunderstandings?

 One thing most people seem to forget about when discussing relationships is personality. Yep, when you're discussing relationships, you are discussing people, and every single person has a personality.

An individual's personality is his or her habitual pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaving. This means that when two people come together at first, each one thinks, feels, and reacts slightly differently at least, to the same event or stimulus.

Of course most couples become a team with time, and can tell what the other is thinking, but these are couples who have crossed the critical stage.

 In the early and critical stage, where two people from 2 different environments or with 2 different life histories begin an interaction, serious care has to be taken to avoid misunderstandings which might lead to a breakup.

The first partner could be a caregiver, an artistic, a visionary, or the idealist type, while the other partner would be a scientist or the thinker type. It is only through patience and understanding that such a couple can become a team and completely unleash their love for one another.

 Different people are different as a result of their environments and the influences from these environments. Someone who grew up in the city, for example, will react differently to different situations as someone who grew up in the countryside.

 Not only do people think, feel, and react differently, they are also hard-wired that way and will expect a colleague or new partner to behave in the exact same fashion as themselves.

 Here exactly, lies the source of most couple's problems. It's the major reason why people break up and it's sad. But it can be helped, and this same relationship can be turned around into the most passionate relationship ever.

 The Solution

 There are 3 steps in turning any sleepy or broken relationship into the adventure of a lifetime.

 1. First, you need to understand yourself.

2. Secondly, you need to understand your partner.

3. Thirdly, you need to change.

Stay tuned for Part 3...