Since times immemorial, men have been competing for lovers. Way back before we evolved to our current level, the process of attracting a mate both suitable and desirable may have been somewhat different to the one we’re accustomed to now in the 21st century. Presently, intersex relationships seem as though they function on a level of assurance and emotion as opposed to raw animal instinct, for that reason it may be important that you commit the following sternly to memory.
10. Become the Best Man You Can Be
If you want to succeed with women, you need to master the art of self-improvement. Most men want to have more — or better — women in their lives. However, they don’t know how to make it happen. Many men think it takes movie-star looks and rock-star money to attract desirable women, the sad truth of this being however that most just simply have no clue how to beckon such women. It’s not pickup lines or fancy clothes or losing a few pounds, if you really want to get an attractive woman to notice you, take the time to develop something unique and interesting about yourself. Who you really are on the inside plays a bigger role in your dating life than any superficial fixes. Showing a woman that you’re a gentleman is a powerful way to stand out from the crowd, and the smallest gestures go a very long way. Open a door for her and pull out a chair. Make sure you walk on the outside of the sidewalk. Put your hand on the small of her back when walking into a restaurant or across the street. You won’t believe how quickly these small things set you apart from 99% of other men.
9. Don’t be a Desperate
Women dismiss a fair amount of prospective males on the grounds of ‘being creepy’, so it’s obviously important that you avoid such categorization at all costs. Championship coaches tell their winning players, “act like you’ve been here before”, and that’s exactly what you need to do with women. The best way to lose a woman you have a lot of interest in is to get possessive, desperate and start calling her 10 times a day, no matter how natural it may seem. Strive simply to accept things the way they are, respect woman, their space and their right to their own thoughts and feelings. Once you do, you’ll have the power to redirect things as you move into the future.