First dates are almost always unnerving, whether you’re being set up on a blind date by a friend or you finally got up the courage to ask out the cute girl from work. But now, thanks to this post from Bustle, you can find out exactly what men and women are looking for on a first date, and calm your nerves. Pro tip: good manners matter for women.

Read the full article here: What Men and Women Want on a First Date, According to a New Survey, Because Manners Are a Must3