If you’re dying to know the secrets behind how to be irresistible to men, these 14 secrets are guaranteed to help you get that date.
There’s always that girl in the 90’s chick flicks whose sheer beauty and grace gets her all the guys in school. Sure, this girl exists, but for the rest of us, making ourselves irresistible to men needs a little more elbow grease and a couple years of making fashion faux pas before getting it right.
Trust me, I was chubby until I was 18 years old and wore skater shoes, I know the struggle. If you’re a tomboy or a wallflower, being unnoticed by guys is a daily activity. It’s like being a tree. Well, listen, you don’t have to spend the next couple years going unnoticed and third wheeling it on your friend’s date—you can go on your own dates. By the end of this feature, you’ll have no problem attracting attention.
How to be irresistible to men: 14 secrets to making their heads turn
There is no exact science to the laws of attraction. However, it’s been observed these qualities are found to be more desirable to men. But you don’t need to have all of these qualities.
However, when reading these suggestions, be self-aware and see if you maybe already have some of these attributes. You’re not that far off from being irresistible to men as you think you are.
#1 Be confident. Confidence is key. You can’t argue that. If you’re confident, you could wear a paper bag as a dress and look like a supermodel. So many women assume confidence comes with having the perfect body and flawless makeup, but it’s not that at all. It’s showing the world you value yourself and you see your own self-worth. Did I just go a little Oprah moment there?
If you’re hiding behind a face full of makeup or you’re wearing sweatpants every day to hide your thighs, it’s time to change that. Not only are men able to read that insecurity like a book, but you’ll struggle in progressing as a person.
#2 Have some mystery. I used to sit with my legs open and snort when I laughed. I discovered, the hard way, that men appreciate a little mystery. They also like when you don’t share similar mannerisms to a farmer *take notes on that*.
You don’t have to tell the guy you’re interested in all your personal details. He doesn’t need to know about your past relationship drama or your fear of pig’s feet. Let’s keep that to ourselves until you land the third date. Mystery keeps men wanting to find out more about you, making you irresistible. Not bad, eh?
#3 You stay clear of drama. Men don’t like drama. And though they may enjoy some gossip now and then, they don’t appreciate it when the drama is being produced by someone they may be interested in. This huge red flag turns men off. Who wants to be with someone who constantly talks about other people behind their backs? Exactly.
So, next time you want to gossip, perhaps save it for your best friend, or even better, don’t share it. This isn’t an episode of Gossip Girl.
#4 Show your softer side. If you want to be irresistible to men, you need to reinforce this idea that there’s nothing wrong with playing sports and getting your hands dirty. Men love a girl who can hold their own ground and play rough. However, they also like femininity. This doesn’t mean you have to ditch playing baseball or drinking beer, you can do all that, but don’t be afraid to also tap into your feminine side.