Mention the word "romance", and people want to run. For many of us, being romantic doesn't come naturally.  For others, the expectations are simply too high.  Romance does not have to mean expensive jewelry, exotic vacations, a $100 flower arrangement, or gourmet chocolates. Here's some really simple things to promote healthy warm feelings of intimacy - yes that means romance!  Why not try one...and watch your romance surge!

1. Go to bed at the same time
2. Cultivate common interests
3. Walk hand in hand or side by side
4. Make trust and forgiveness a default mode
5. Focus more on what your partner does right vs. what they do wrong
6. Hug each other after you see each other after work
7. Say “I love you” or “Have a Good Day” every morning
8. Say “Good Night” every night, regardless how you feel
9. Do a “weather” check during the day (Check in with each other)
10. Be proud to be seen with your partner