So, what does it feel like to be eaten out? Well, one thing is for sure—if it’s done right, it definitely feels better than winning the lottery.
If you’re a guy or a girl who’s been contemplating what does it feel like to be eaten out, the idea of it may be really alien to you. Sure, for the experienced, having oral sex as foreplay is like getting dessert right before dinner *and then getting another bigger dessert again afterwards if you came*.
For guys, though, getting head is pretty much a straightforward thing. Men, by and large, seem to love receiving blowjobs. However, it’s not as simple as that for women when they receive some munching.
For women, there are so many factors that come into play when it comes to being eaten out. It doesn’t matter whether a guy knows his way around her anatomy while she’s spread eagle in front of his face. Sometimes, it takes more than a skilled partner to get a girl into it while she’s getting eaten out.
So what does it really feel like to be eaten out?
Let’s start with the preliminary questions.
First of all, being eaten out puts a woman in a very vulnerable position. Her legs are spread out and apart, and her partner is kneeling down on her. She can’t see his face, his facial expressions, and she has no clue what he will be doing down there exactly.
So as she lays down, spreads her legs, and waits for the guy to make contact, a lot of questions are racing through her mind:
– Do I look good down there?
– Does he smell pee?
– What if I smell weird? Or what if he doesn’t like the way I smell at all?
– Should I have shaved everything off?
– What if I taste funny? What if he doesn’t like the taste?
– Is he really sure he’s going to do it? For real?
– Is this really happening?
– What if, what if, what if…
If she’s on a one-night stand with a guy, the stress levels are probably higher. This is true because first, she doesn’t really know that guy. And second, it’s just purely physical and superficial. So if there’s something the guy wouldn’t like down there, then it can potentially be a let-down that will affect how the rest of the night will go.
However, if she’s in a loving relationship, and she and her partner have been together long enough to be comfortable and accepting, then there might not be much insecurity. However, there could still be a little bit of first-timer anxiety.
Now down to business
Once you make contact with her genitalia, either with your lips, tongue, hands, or everything all at once, the feeling is close to indescribable. In this case, you can look at being eaten out as something akin to having your partner scratch an itch you didn’t even know existed.
It feels good. In fact, it feels WAY better than good. It’s amazing. It’s exciting. It’s exhilarating. It makes her feel breathless.
With all her worries and insecurities, she would greatly appreciate it if give her some form of appreciation or compliment about her body, or say how hot she is. But if you’re not one for words, then the mere act of going down on her and eating her out with so much gusto can be enough for her to relax and really be in the moment.
Lips, tongue, fingers, mouth
She likes to be surprised. She loves it when you know just what kind of motion and pressure you’re using on which part of her genitalia. And yes, there can be a lot of factors and probabilities to take in.
The best guide for which one she likes best is by watching her reactions. Her body language and her moans are great indicators. While some may be faking pleasure just to please their partners, experience and a keen ear will tell the difference.
She also likes it a lot when you circle your tongue all over her to find her sweet spot. Some also like to be fingered at the same time that their clitoris is being orally stimulated.
It’s best to use your tongue, lips, fingers, and a little nibble of the teeth for that sense of surprise and variety. There are many ways to go about this and give her pleasure, but the best instruction you can ever get is from reading her own responses.